J – key to living abroad?
Maybe I am clingy as a result and have not explained my hopes to him.
E – Being generous like the rest of the family/the next matriarch.
I feel disappointed and that it is a great shame that she doesn’t live up to this.
L – be available and interested as a friends, and being responsive.
This isn’t happening and our friendship is drifting away.
M – To take responsibility for her happiness.
I don’t know how to help but I feel it’s her responsibility to help herself, she’s old enough.
C – To conquer himself and be happy.
I continue to listen and encourage.